It’s not what you say, it’s what people hear.

You can have the best message in the world, but the person on the receiving end will always understand it through the prism of his or her own emotions, perceptions, prejudices, and preexisting beliefs.

Its not enough to be correct or reasonable or even brilliant. The key to successful communication is to take the imaginative leap of stuffing yourself right into your listeners shoes to know what they are thinking and feeling in the deepest recesses of their mind and heart.

How that person perceives what you say is even more real, at least in a practical sense, than how you perceive yourself.