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Nicos Paschali
Whenever you’re angry, frustrated, irritated, fearful, anxious, procrastinating, feeling hurt, wishing people would be different … you’re in the bubble. These are signs.When you notice that you’re in the bubble, expand your mind and heart. Wish others well. Want their happiness, as you want your own happiness. See other people’s suffering and wish for it to end or lessen. See how you can help. How can you lessen the suffering of others? Sometimes it’s by paying attention, listening. Other times you need to be there, lend a hand. learn to be bigger than yourself. Learn that the life they’ve given as is a gift, and we must make the most of it, and not waste a second.Learn that there is nothing more fulfilling than making the lives of others a little better. Be Well and Happy. -
Nicos Paschali
Small Words With Great Meanings!
Some little words have great implications. These are often outside the conscious awareness of the speaker or listener.
Small word: But (although, however)
Implied Meaning: But negates what has previously been said, (as do the other two words to a lesser extent). “That was an excellent presentation, but (however, although) you could make it even better by…” implies that it was not a great performance.
Comment: It is much more useful to use and instead of but, unless you do want to negate what has been said.
(For example, when the speaker mentions negatives! Such as “all the difficulties they have had met the deadline.” You can reply, “Yes, it was difficult, but you have learned so much from it.”)
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Nicos Paschali
How you’re brought up can radically impact how successful you become.
Natural abilities stop mattering in hunting success after you reach a skills “threshold.” A far more important factor is whether you have useful intelligence.
Practical intelligence is “procedural” knowledge.
Knowing how to interpret and work social situations to get what you want. In other words, knowing who to ask what, and when. The ability to interact and negotiate with authority can help to get closer to our goals.
This knowledge is not innate. Wealthier parents instil in their children a feeling of “entitlement”. More than lower-class parents do. They do this by paying more attention to their children. Providing their children with enriching activities that promote intellectual growth.
They teach their children to demand respect and to “customise” a situation to suit their needs. In other words, they teach their kids practical intelligence.
By contrast, poorer parents are often intimidated by authority. They let their children follow a pattern of “natural growth”. There is less pushing, prodding and encouraging than in wealthier families. Thus children from poorer households are less likely to learn practical intelligence.
Thus, decreases their chances of success.
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Nicos Paschali
The power of belief!
Almost every successful person begins with two beliefs: The future can be better than the present, and I have the power to make it so. Deep inside you is an unlived life just waiting to happen when you finally believe you can.
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Nicos Paschali
Targeting and Nailing that Dream Job!
Doing what you love and what sits comfortably with you leads to happiness and fulfilment!
You want to be noticed. You want to present an attractive and inspiring image to those around you. But sometimes it’s hard to find the right balance between “blowing your own trumpet” and underselling yourself.
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Nicos Paschali
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Nicos Paschali
Make your profile “More Trusted”
Make it easier for viewers to assess YOU!
Either as a candidate seeking that dream job or as a hiring organisation seeking for that leadership talent!!!
Find out the anatomy of the “More Trusted YOU” using the wheel of trust and display the 6 components of trust.
And the bonus for you? You will construct the trusted profile of the organisation you want to spend part of your life. You will learn what equations you will be asking at the interview…
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Nicos Paschali
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Nicos Paschali
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Nicos Paschali
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